Today during 'BorderCrossings' Larry said in July Jennifer Lopez celebrated her 41st birthday.She does not now care so much about pleasing other people anymore.She would try to make herself happy first.And she is going to take care of her kids and her family.In the earlier days she used to work as a secretary and arrive in the subway in New York dreaming about becoming famous.She had romances with famous personalities.Jennifer recently celebrated her marriage anniversary to Mark Anthony.She told Mark to get her something expensive to show that he really loved her.So what Mark did he bought a 14 carat blue diamond ring for her.Its cost is 3/4 times the cost of a regular plain diamond.